THE DAY IS UPON US

It’s time to say our final “Official” goodbye to you Sweet Boy. We’ll all be at the party to CELEBRATE your life. Please come and join us. AND KNOW THAT WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER.

Monday, December 26, 2011

Xmas message from Auntie Janet

Hello Hito:
So how was your Christmas?  Did you get to spend it with the birthday boy?  You are in my thoughts every day, you know. I thought about sending you and Carlos a few bucks for Christmas .. then in the middle of that thought, I remembered that you are no longer in a place where they will do you any good.  

You’ll be happy to know that I have been eating enough desserts for the both of us! We had Christmas Eve here at our house and I was too busy to eat… so I have made up for it the last couple of days!  

The weather is cold out here.  I don’t like the cold.  Nor do I like the heat.  I like spring and fall temperatures.. 70% would be just fine.  And that’s if I remember correctly what 70 degrees feels like, which I probably don’t since my memory has walked out the door.  

Uncle Bob and Jonas are outside working on making a zip line.  It is a Christmas and Birthday gift (Jan. 8th) for Jonas.  

As I’m sure you are aware, your mom and Andy got a new house. It’s really nice, it has a pool.  You would have loved it.  I know you like the water...or was it just the ocean? Did you love being in the swimming pool, too?  I should ask your Auntie Dish, she would know.  

When you lose someone, every day is hard, but some days are harder. Of course, holidays are on the hard list!  We have a picture of you, Carlos, and your mom up along with the picture of you giving a lizard a cigarette… What were you thinking dude… two puffs and the lizard would have cancer, five puffs and he’d probably be dead!!  That picture makes us laugh… Jonas absolutely loves it, it’s one of our favorites!  

Grandma Dianne and I were in Florida for Thanksgiving and we cleaned your room, packed up your stuff.  So tell me, do you have to change clothes up there are you butt naked like the angels?  Or do you wear a robe or what… maybe you wear a shirt and pants .. but do you never get dirty… I’d like that cause who the heck wants to do laundry when you’re in Heaven, (unless of course there are laundry angels? ..plus I don’t really like water so taking a shower or bath is not my favorite thing to do, so I could do without that, too. Although I wouldn’t mind being able to wear whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted.  The clothes I have now are not really all that.  I dress according to my budget.  Grandma and I took a valium before we started cleaning the first day… so we did ok.  It was hell on your mom, though.  So I took another valium!

Your mom misses you sooo much.   I’m sure you know that she got a tattoo on her arm representing you… so if you feel a smack every once in a while… it’s her smacking her arm… which means she’s smacking you!  No doubt every smack is well deserved, but don’t feel bad… there is love behind that smack! I love you, Hito.
 
 

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